You can't just let go of the "steamed feeling" in relationships

You can't just let go of the "steamed feeling" in relationships

Recently, I have realized something about human relationships. Relationships that are old, outwardly good, not bad when they meet all together, or have a 'steep feeling' that remains even in a beneficial business relationship are difficult to sustain. Attitudes toward the other person in a relationship are bound to be revealed naturally at a microscopic point. Being together and close for a long time is no exception. The other person's sincerity is naturally conveyed in terms of apology or gratitude, name and tone, and the timing and method of contact, and this is established. As the ability to notice minute feelings in the other person's relationship building increases, it seems that it is natural to be careful about establishing my relationship and to put the right mind in it.

A saint is said to have distinguished between a gentleman (a benefactor) and a minor, and defined a person who should not be deeply concerned as a "non-human." In other words, in relationships with him, greed, anguish, and inexperience within him become more prominent and bigger, so he teaches us to do all formal examples but not to pay attention. In relationships with him, did I have more fun moments to learn and feel awkward and often feel unpleasant for no reason? If I have reached the level of a Bodhisattva, I wonder if I should be considerate of my surroundings as much as my energy allows and give more opportunities to the minor and the non-human. However, from the standpoint of a beginner who is growing up, I cannot be with someone with an unpleasant attitude. Shouldn't I treat business with awards and proper manners, and with my heart when it comes to human relationships.

What's interesting is that dreams review the subtle feelings that you didn't notice. It shows what the situation was and how the other person's speech contained feelings only after a few months. It is a situation where blood is cold and various emotions are rising, but when you calm down and ask for a way to go, a wise answer seems to come out. There is a thing called time connection. After you have learned everything to learn in a relationship, you will pass by. If there is something to be reconnected, it will naturally be reconnected. There is no need to catch someone who has a bad heart. Do not catch those who go, and do not block those who come. Pursue inner growth and create opportunities to meet good people so that returnees can come.