Things I don't have... Things I need to have

Things I don't have... Things I need to have through learning. We are the product of the environment and DNA. No matter how hard I talk about my efforts or will, it is very small compared to the influence of these two big things.

But there is something we learn from people around us and from experience, from books that I don't have. The knowledge of studying at school is one of them, but...

The most important thing to feel older is consideration... consideration for others...
And a lot of experience also makes life more mature....

In the past, there was a planner who said that if you get a job as an insurance company as an planner, your friendship will be reorganized. After the IMF, a lot of talented people quit the company, and many people got employed as foreign insurance companies. At that time, the foreign community had a strategy called PRO-SALES centered on men, met customers with a laptop, armed them with expertise, and designed insurance, which was a little sensational in the market at the time. Most people do that now.

When laptops were expensive and there were many people who were not at home, I met customers, opened laptops, and designed insurance, which gave customers a very different feeling. It was even more so when people with good educational backgrounds and connections were doing business.

At the time, an architect said that friendships were classified into three categories.
I told my friends that I changed my job as an insurance agent. Let's take a look
A group of friends who avoid meeting by delaying the next day
I'm meeting a group of people, but I'll sign up for you, so tell me anything appropriate
The last category is to respect a friend who has a job as an architect, listen carefully to her, ask her questions, treat her seriously, get insurance, or... think about it...

As friends are divided into these three categories, the friendship is reorganized. In the end, the first two categories are awkward friendships... Especially in the second class, they are so angry that they design insurance and just come out.
Then, while drinking soju alone, he said that life is like a friend... He said that he was worried about this.
The third type of person is someone who is considerate of others. I learned it after I was born with the DNA award... That is, since an acquaintance became an insurance planner, even though I don't want to meet an architect, I respect his job by being considerate of an acquaintance... I listen to the end and treat him seriously. This is consideration.

How did we learn to be considerate??
What does it mean to be considerate of others??

Someone said on TV that there is a difference between honest words and caring words.
Everyone says we like being honest, but I'm not saying that we should pretend, but we should be honest with you about being considerate.

For example, my friend said, "Let's go hiking." If I don't want to go hiking, I don't want to go hiking. It's so nice to be honest and considerate of others. I want to go, too, but I think it'll be a little hard this time... I think it'll be difficult for a while... I'm saying this because I'm considerate of others. I'm not being honest...

I published a book. In fact, I published a book to celebrate the first act of my life, not to expect it to be sold.
You also see a class of friends here.

One of my friends said, "Give me a copy."
One friend is thinking, "Should I buy you a copy?"
Some friends don't care about anything. Don't throw it out...

But I thought it would be different depending on the degree of friendship.
However, as the designer said, it is not really related to the degree of friendship. That is the difference between a person who is considerate of others and a weak person...

I'm also a very weak person. Actually, I've never thought and thought deeply about consideration. It's just a life that I've lived without thinking about..

So I had a lot of useless arguments... and I was in a hurry to assert myself.

But lately, I've been thinking about the word consideration a lot
Some friends learn these things and some acquaintances learn different things....

I know one of the most considerate people in my life.
It's been a long time, but when my friends went abroad and bought useless things, I told them why I should buy this, and he said this. Someone else is trying to live, so I have to make them feel good. Why would you say that...

I realized a lot then. Yeah, yeah, yeah. Why do you want to save things? Why do you want to buy them? Why do you want to buy them? I don't need to say this. I bought them anyway. Or I'm going to buy them...
This is also consideration for others...

So after that, I came to think that consideration always contains praise.  

Even as we get older, we have to learn constantly. We have to learn and learn
I can expand a little bit in my environment, given DNA.

Then, when someone asks why you have to live like that
I reply that it's for me to be happy...