If anyone makes such an apology, quickly move away

2024. 2. 17. 09:24U.S. Economic Stock Market Outlook

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If anyone makes such an apology, quickly move away

Whatever you do wrong in a field, there are times when you encounter an apology or words that feel polite when you hear it, but you keep feeling bad. Representatively, the following three are the main characters.
1. If I did anything wrong, I'll reflect on it.
2. I'm sorry if you felt hurt.
3. I'll be a better person.

On the surface, it feels like a gentleman and an apology at the same time, but this is why this apology is not a true apology.
1. If I did anything wrong, I'll reflect on it.
->
Here's what they're thinking.
"Look for what I did wrong.
If I find it, I'll apologize then."

2. I'm sorry if you felt hurt.
->
Here's what they're thinking.
"Others were just passing by,
Why are you so sensitive?"

3. I'll be a better person.
->
They are deviated from the essence.
The expression "a better person"
You're already a "good person,"
Your standards are too high
I need to be a better person,
This is because the feeling of injustice is melted.

If you look at what language he uses to apologize
You can quickly grasp what kind of person he is.
The person who apologizes in the three ways introduced above
It's better to get away quickly because there's nothing good to be around.

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