• Stage 7 of people failing

• Stage 7 of people failing

Relaxed posture is important.
Most people who are relaxed, such as relationships, money, and transactions, win and take the lead.

The push is the urgent side.
People who need to solve something right now, or need something right now, or want something right now

If your life skills increase, you won't create an urgent situation in the first place, but it's mostly yourself that makes it urgent even when you become an adult.

In my opinion, the 7th step of Koreans failing (i.e., creating an urgent situation) is as follows.

1. Comparison - often starting with family, relatives, and media.
2. Inferiority - Growing up without anyone knowing.
3. Desire - The desire to be good arises and becomes overwhelmed.
4. Smug - overbought things, personal connections, and accomplishments
5. Fretful - but there are so many perfect comparisons
6. Over-the-top - end up with start-ups, more expensive stuff, weird project careers
7. Tyranny - Spare all your money, time, youth, opportunities, and connections and start a time of hardship

Even though you're doing well at work,
Even if I do my business well,
Even if you continue your studies well,
If you suddenly ruin yourself by doing something useless, you're likely to have gotten caught up in that level seven in some way.

There are two types of countermeasures.

1. aloofness
Comparison, inferiority, desire, condescension, anxiety, or levels 1 to 5 can be managed by being detached.

2. a certain amount of effort
In other words, if there are no steps that have not been stepped up or stepped up from the bottom, it is actually difficult to go down, and even if you go down, you can come back up at any time. Instead of learning something with a gambling mind or choosing a job, choose the process and method of learning and growing properly by stepping on the stairs.

I can't tell you because I don't know how to succeed like everyone else,
It may be possible to tell you how not to fail.
It starts with moving away from that 7th stage and focusing entirely on my life.

I also fell into stage seven,
He also went through a long period of hardship. There was a time when he couldn't escape from a small room in the basement of the Gosiwon in Sillim-dong for six years (even since he was in his mid-30s).

And many are seen to be in the process.
Does toothache and back pain mean that only sick people sympathize with each other and recognize each other? Similar to that, there are people who walk through difficulties while going back and forth to that level of seven.

But I also shut my mouth to them because I'm not good enough.
Even if you're a close person, it's not well conveyed in words. Maybe you can express that you don't listen.

In a hurry, they try to skip the stage of growth.
He tries to jump over without taking any effort.
It may be because it is not detached and overwhelmed by impatience.

But if you try to skip, you'll definitely get sick.
Just as parts are definitely broken when assembling a machine and going to the next stage, the steps that are left out eventually create problems.

Also, trying to skip is the attitude of a person who is not relaxed, and such an urgent posture is often seen as a weakness by others, used, or made wrong choices in an urgent mind, making the steps twisted on their own.

So, don't skip it.
To do that, first accept the aloofness.

#Nervousness
#Very simple